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Anonymous asked: Isn't the Pringles potato chip labeling issue also because they are made out of much less actual potato than "normal" chips? And in the UK they fought to not be categorized into the same group so they would be subject to less VAT? My sister, a doctor, tries to satisfy her junk food cravings with Cheetos, and says that if we really want potato chips to go for a brand other than Pringles since they're pretty much potato starch, lacking even the potassium you could get from normal chips.

…depends on how you define “less actual potato”. That makes it sound like you think Pringles are primarily composed of something other than potato, which is not the case. They start with a potato. They transform that potato using age-old food preservation and preparation techniques (dehydrating and then forming and cooking), though with space-agey science added in (they use computerized machines… but then, I’m sure the potato chip fryers do, too). 

In the process, yes, some of what was in the original potato is lost. But it’s not replaced with tungsten or something.

Anyway, there are two categories of people you should always be suspicious about getting advice about “junk food” from: doctors (especially who don’t specifically have a specific grounding in nutrition, and even if they do, be skeptical), and other people’s relatives.

Doctors mostly get their notions about food and nutrition from the same sources as the rest of us (internet rumors, “common sense”, societal prejudice, pseudoscience, and stuff that they heard other people’s sisters who are doctors said), but because of their medical education, more authority gets attached to it.

As for the labeling issue: well, no. It was purely a mercantile dispute. Even if it could be proven today that Pringles cause spontaneously combusting rectal tumors that migrate to the brain, that wouldn’t change that the motivation behind the labeling issue was to prevent a newcomer that managed to address the top  complaints people have about potato chips from being marketed as a competitor to potato chips.

Pringles are a perfect example of a product that exists specifically to address consumer complaints in an existing product. They are good at what they do. 

It’s true that Pringles don’t have the potassium of other potato products. You know who this is an issue for? People who eat potato chips for potassium. You go ahead and round those people up, I’ll wait while you find them and then I’ll address their concerns. Meanwhile, notice how Pringles haven’t actually managed to supplant traditional potato chips, or the act of eating an actual potato. And they won’t, so it’s kind of silly to act like they’re a potassium deficiency waiting to happen. 

People eat potato chips because they want something that will taste good and go crunch. If there’s a nutritional component to the craving, it’s the potato starch. People’s relatives who are doctors call this “empty calories” on the basis that it’s just calories without substantive nutrition, but this ignores the fact that calories are what we need to get ourselves through the day. Potassium is a long-term need.

Don’t get me wrong, I know potassium is important. My body in particular takes several of my major muscle groups hostage when I don’t eat potassium. But if your life is at a point where “empty calories” are a thing you can worry about—where you never have to worry about what’s going to get you through the day without running out of oomph—then congratulations on your success in life. 

Also, unless you’re sodium deficient, then potassium is about the only redeeming nutritional value of traditional potato chips, so why are we stopping there? The same logic that says “DON’T EAT PRINGLES, EAT POTATO CHIPS” says “DON’T EAT POTATO CHIPS”. It’s not like the added potassium cancels out the starch, or the potential negative effects of a glucose dump it will turn into. It’s not like the potato chips are a balanced meal. It’s not like they’re not high in sodium… in fact, they have more than double the sodium of Pringles… so when your sister the doctor tells people not to eat Pringles, she is making a wild guess that they have more pressing problems from potassium deficiency than they do from sodium intake, which seems unlikely.

And that’s the kind of thing that happens when people dispense generic medical advice to strangers based on a random factoid.

When you’re eating potato chips, it’s either a choice or a necessity. If it’s a necessity, you’re eating them because they’re there, because they’re available. If it’s a choice… well, you’ve already chosen to eat “junk food”. And if what you’re choosing to eat is Pringles, why not eat the Pringles? It’s not necessary… or ultimately helpful… to make your junk food choices based on some random, arbitrary metric of “healthiness” or “wholesomeness” and “goodness” so you can tell yourself “well, at least I’m being good.

Even by the narrow definition of healthy eating being promoted, that doesn’t actually encourage healthy eating habits. Rather, it encourages us to fool ourselves.

I like Pringles because of the novelty (or at least, what was novel when I was a kid, but it never really went away), and because they come out with more interesting flavors, and because the uniformity of shape and texture appeals to me, and because they are less salty than most chips. “Potassium” isn’t an answer to those needs.

Anonymous asked: The free market is doing its job just fine. Like you said P+G is "cleaning up."

Right, but the other companies are still arguing that this is an unfair business practice, a bad move, something that ruins things for everyone. How powerful can the self-correcting invisible hand of the free market really be if multiple industries can support themselves for decades on the notion of getting consumers to waste/overuse products, to the point that they feel entitled to maintain that wasteful status quo indefinitely in the face of innovation?

It’s basically the same as the entertainment industries’ reactions to digital media: “Don’t make us update our business models! You can’t! It’s not fair!” And while it’s true that eventually businesses that won’t update end up going under (Borders self-destructed in part because of its slow and poor attempts to get with the program on online book sales and e-readers), until that critical tipping point is reached, they control the markets. The invisible hand of the free market is their masturbatory aid.

Anonymous asked: Belle?

…not really? The number of people I’m close to is very, very small.

Anonymous asked: Tiana =)

A time I tried the hardest for something?

I think most of my “tried hardest” stories are born of sheer desperation. The things in my life that seem to parallel Tiana’s hard work to make her dream come true… I don’t feel like I’ve worked hard to do my author thing, more like I’ve worked steadily at it. Paying off my debts and moving across the country to be with Master Jack is probably the biggest deliberate hard work and effort to reach a dream thing.

Anonymous asked: What's a polyfam?

A family formed by people in a polyamorous relationship with other members of the unit.

Anonymous asked: is "transsexual" a slur? i used to hear it all the time but lately not so much.

It’s not a slur, no, it’s just that the vocabulary in use has broadened, which allows more more precision. I used to describe myself as transsexual, but now I find that trans woman describes me better. If I’m speaking about people in general, I’ll say trans*, because the wild card at the end covers people who identify the way I do, people who identify specifically as transgender, and people who identify as transsexual.

The result of this is that I very rarely use the word “transsexual”, but I’m not avoiding it because it’s a slur, I’m simply only using it when I’m specifically talking about transsexuality.

Anonymous asked: Why are you changing your game so much based on what other people think?

…because that’s the whole reason I put it up?

I’m not altering the content or underlying ideas. If somebody came up to me and said “I don’t think it makes sense that you can be a warrior and use magic or that wizards can use swords because that’s not what I know,” I’d explain to them that this is a deliberate design choice and it’s going to remain the same.

But if somebody comes up and says, “I don’t understand how to make a warrior who has magic.”… that might be indicative of a problem. I knew when I put it up that my ideas were not all as clear as crystal, that I hadn’t always taken the simplest path to get to the intended end result. But since the ideas were all clear in my head, I was in a poor position to judge where and how it needed improving.

The world has a lot of roleplaying games with ideas that may be brilliant but nobody will ever know because they’re written in ways that only make sense to their creators, and games that make it to print with incomprehensible or contradictory rules because instead of listening to feedback the creators just explained to their playtesters how they were supposed to work. I don’t want to release something like that. 

Anonymous asked: THANK YOU for the Mage update.

You’re welcome!

Anonymous asked: I'm so so sorry if this is in any way triggering but could you please explain why the word t____y is considered a slur? Until very recently I thought it was just an abbreviation but now I know that is certainly not true.

I’m going to start with a general principle.

Imagine there’s a group of eight children in the playground. Seven of them pick something about the eighth one, some characteristic. Something about the child’s appearance, or the part of the town they’re from, or some part of their background.

And they abbreviate it and stick a -y on the end.

And they call the child that.

Imagine this is all the information you have at your disposal, and someone makes you the following offer:

They will stake you $1,000 in the form of a no-interest loan, but you must use that money to place either of the following bets.

You can bet that the child is being taunted and cruelly tormented. If you place this bet and you’re right, you win $1,100 against your bet of $1,000.

Or you can bet that the other children are just engaging in a neutral discussion of some facet of their chum’s existence in a way that does not alienate or trivialize or hurt the child, and if you’re right, you win $11,000.

Now, whichever bet you place, if you win then the initial loan is covered from the payout and you walk away either $100 or $10,000 richer. If you lose, the $1,000 debt must be repaid no matter what.

If you had to take one or the other of these bets, which one would you take?

If you’re having a hard time figuring this out (it’s not meant to be a trick question), pick something about yourself. Imagine you’re walking down the street and somebody driving by in a car yells “HEY, [that thing]Y!” at you.

Have you A) been paid a compliment or B) been insulted?

Take this general principle and apply it to the matter at hand.

More specifically:

It’s considered a slur because it is one. That might seem like circular reasoning, but defining a word is always circular reasoning. Language is tautology. You can’t prove the meaning of the word “ball” by induction or deduction or any other kind of reasoning. It means “ball” because that’s what “ball” means.

“I am Gandalf, and Gandalf means me.”

To put it another way: it’s considered a slur because it’s used as one.

When Tyler Oakley says that someone looks like “a legit [t-slur]”, that’s not neutral. When fetishizing pornography uses it as a descriptive label, it’s not just a descriptive label. When Dan Savage decides to show how seriously he takes the responsibility of not using his position of privilege and social capital to harm trans* folk by calling a letter writer “BAD [T-SLUR]” and “SELFISH [T-SLUR]” as a “playful” “joke”, he’s not employing a neutral abbreviation.

You know the first time I heard the word said out loud?

It was on some sitcom on the WB or UPN or somewhere, doing an in-episode Married With Children fantasy sequence, where the character in the Al Bundy role was talking about his job at the women’s shoe store, having to assist a “[t-slur]” who didn’t wear underwear with a shoe fitting.

Okay, now even if you’d never heard the t-slur being described as a slur, you probably wouldn’t need to be told (I hope) that the trans* woman in this scenario is the butt of the joke, and the joke basically amounts to “she had a penis and I saw it and she’s really a dude so I was tricked into looking at a dude’s dong THAT’S THE JOKE LAUGH”.

Before that, I’d seen it written in the following contexts: porn, insults, “jokes”. And occasionally, very rarely, being used by a trans* woman who was reclaiming it. 

Think about where you’ve seen it, how you’ve seen it being used. It’s probably true that in most of the cases, the speaker/writer could have written a longer word out and the basic meaning would have been the same. But were they nice usages? Was the basic message respectful?

It’s a slur because it’s a slur.

Anonymous asked: I keep looking at the gear rules you posted and I feel like I'm missing something. Is there a master list of weapons available?

Nope, you’re not missing anything.

When you buy a weapon, you’re paying a character creation resource for “Hey I have a weapon”, which you’re free to describe/define the way you do your character. If you want a sword, you say it’s a sword. If you want an axe, you say it’s an axe. If you want a dagger, you say it’s a dagger.

If you’re a weapons nerd and you want to say it’s a flamberge or a dirk, you can do that, too.

No type of weapon is inherently assumed to be better than others at a level that translates directly on a 1d6 attack roll; whether your character is better off with a tiny little dagger or a great big battleaxe depends entirely on which one you’re more skilled with. The specific differences we might imagine between different types of weapons are represented by assigning them traits. The dagger might be better for throwing or parrying than the battleaxe; the battleaxe might take better advantage of a big two-handed swing with a lot of power in it.

 (Even if you don’t take anything that represents weapon-related skill, having a weapon among your gear confers familiarity with it, which affects combat rolls… so a character who carries a dagger and not a sword will be better with daggers than swords, in the absence of anything else.)